Okay this post maybe just a long rant but here it goes. Is dating like a boxing match? I’m starting to think so. When you first meet you kinda shake hands, then you put your defenses up. Who can outplay the other. I mean I don’t want to play games, I just want someone to talk to at this point and that actually wants to talk to me, that might have some of the same interest as me. Also, that their life isn’t a complete disaster.
I mean I understand disaster just because I have it around me all the time, but I don’t want it in my home. My home should be a quiet place. A place of calm and reflection with all that I enjoy to do or be, shouldn’t it? I mean I have enough soap opera drama at work, I don’t want it at my house. What changed in dating? Have I been gone that long? You go out, someone buys u dinner or you pay half, and you go home? Right?
You communicate now!! You say something now a days, goes in the ear but they act like you didn’t say anything at all? NO I’m not rich, NO I can’t pay you bills, NO I don’t want the added responsibility of you coming to my house, for one how are you getting here? And do I really want you to know where I live? For two how are you leaving? Without a car? NO I don’t want to take you home. (Screaming loudly). Does anyone work? I mean I have several jobs, not just one? I mean I sew, I also sell paintings and books. JUST TO GET BY!!
I don’t sit on a couch and watch tv or play video games all day?!! Then ask someone that I don’t really know for money. Has every single person went nuts? Okay maybe I’m just superficial. Maybe it’s just me? I’m starting to think so? I don’t want drama, I want someone that has their shit together!! (Again, Screaming loudly). That can pay for half of a dinner, that has a job, and a car, and a place to live (not with parents)! And is not an emotional basket case, and/or will not say they are in love after one date. I don’t think I’m being unreasonable here.
Maybe I am? If you don’t have a job, a car, and a place to live, I don’t think you should be in a dating website. Just my opinion. Like I said I maybe nuts, but I really don’t think this is to much to ask? The LBGTQIA community really needs to get some better apps. Like for educated, motivated, hard working, driven, simple minded people.
I don’t think I’m being picky here? Maybe I should just make my own app. Maybe I should just design one where it would be like having good credit, if you don’t have a job, a car, or a place to live, you can’t join. Like the water department, show proof by way of lease, or drivers license. Just some thoughts I wanted to put out there. Just frustrated and a little defeated. Guess I’ll never learn. I still have hope, damn it, that someone out there in this vast world and out of the billions of people that there is someONE for me!!!!
Okay, you can go back to your lives, now. My long rant is officially over…… (or the rant is just to be continued at a later time and date) no pun intended….